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Praise vs. Flattery

New York Magazine Cover 070219Child rearing advice is ever-changing.

The latest thinking, according to New York Magazine is that it’s much better to praise kids for their efforts, and not so good to praise them for their intelligence.

Praising a child’s IQ sends the message that no effort is required, whereas praising effort itself rewards persistence.

This sounds plausible & might even be true…but who knows for sure? It would take decades of massive-cohort double-blind studies to confirm the author’s assertions.   

How Not to Talk to Your Kids - New York Magazine, February 19 2007

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